Well, whilst this write up may be directed to some particular group of people, I think everybody wants a good significant other to date and get married to if this work out well. Hence I will encourage you to stick to this write-up bore through experience and teachings.
When going out for love at this part of the world, many believed it is appropriate to be cunning in your dealings than to go all out into it – which is taught to be the right way. Because love strives on trust.
Now let’s get to where this message is directed – a Christian home – I guess that is a place you will like to pick a piece of advice on a weighty issue like this from right?
Now as a Christian, dating too long is very risky and can ruin everything. Man is flesh and blood, and when l say man, I mean both parties. Moreover, “body no be firewood as the saying goes in most African communities.
You will be tempted to taste the forbidden fruit when you spent your quality time together, and hence going contrary to the word of God. So, here, the best thing to do is to cut it short and head straight to the altar.
Now, how short is short in Christian dating? Given the background of this write-up, nothing above 6 mouths is good for Christian dating. By six months, you must able to know each other enough to settle based on the fact that God is sailing with you in the boat.
But if you are not from a Christian home or background, hence no hesitation nor hindrance in tasting the forbidden fruit during dating, it can range between 6 to 1 year.
Now let me take some leads from the bible to back it up. How long did Isaac date Rebeccah? The bible said when Isaac saw Rebeccah from a distance and he loved her and married her? Read the book of Genesis chapter 24. Also, the bibe said he who finds a wife [ not a girlfriend, not a date, not a fiancee ] finds a good thing. Proverb: 18;22.
Moreover, when dating keeps too long, the young flaming romance dies gradually. This is a very short but precise write up for you. I would like to hear about your experiences. Thanks for reading.