The flashy and the ‘babe girl’ life and the classy men may elude you if you fail to put yourself at a level where they can reach you. And please, get this, being a lady is an added booster to achieving success in life. Take it or leave it.
What l mean by that is that, according to research, 95% of women who dare begin a journey succeed at it whilst only 60% of men do. The difference is, men are naturally born to dare, and so we have men taking more risks than women hence men are always the leaders.
One thing about this society is the belief that successful women don’t respect or subordinate, but the fact is successful women scare men. I gave those points as a booster. Now, let’s get to the matter.
How hard does it have to take for a woman to find classy men attractive or to be attracted to men of class? It shouldn’t be too hard, in fact, it is very easy.
As a woman who wants to be attracted to men of class; you must have a class of yourself. What l mean is, in case you want to marry a businessman, you can only meet those men in the business world. So you must be a businesswoman yourself to be able to get one.
Polish yourself in a good feed as a woman [ make yourself a top-notch class ]. Let me share of a friend of mine who dates a man every month. She dresses so nicely and sits and expensive pubs, restaurants and hotels waiting for a man to approach her. And yes, she always taken and always dumped. That is because after the men discovered that she has no class, they USE her anyhow, pay her and off she is gone. So have a class and watch men trip over you.
Point number two is, don’t focus too much on a man, focus so much on yourself. This is like a subsidiary of point one. At this point even if you find a man at point one, you switch up and make it work. One thing about men is that when they realised you are just hungry, they will feed you and then, enslave you. There are many marriages that women are suffering torture but can’t leave or divorce due to the honeycomb they keep enjoying effortlessly.
At this point, you can act like a tough woman and redefine yourself but if you allow yourself to get caged, they may be no return, don’t focus and depend wholly on a man. Have plans or ideas that are convincing enough that he can buy into.
Qualify yourself to demand quality, this is point three. Imagine a lady being a CEO of an international airline, it is not possible to be approached by low-class men. Whoever walk into the office, seminar, buffets must have a good class and surely you will get a catch there.
Last but not least is personality, this can take you places. As the popular African adage says, ‘he who knows how to wash his /her hands, dine with Kings’. As a woman, good things are bound to come your way naturally, it’s your character or personality that grab them or expel them.
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