It is very good to cum during a good time with your significant other, it takes the game to a different level leaving both parties yearning for more as the game goes on.
But research has it that about 10 -20% of women have never in their entire life reached this level of sweetness when it comes to this moment and neither when they try in musturbation.
Now, it is good to know that you can actually learn to cum and it is very possible. But the must know-know over here is that you must know or learn to practise developing a balance of tension and relaxation during the act. Wondering how one can be tensed and relaxed at the same time? That is a good thought. Now let’s get to it.
- TENSE UPThe type of tension that helps women reach that level of pleasure is muscle tension [ myotonia ]. Many women have the mistaken impression that they should relax and ‘just lie there’ because they’ve heard that relaxation during the act is very important and makes it is very easy to enjoy. But it turns out that muscle tension is very necessary if you want to reach that level.
By research, the majority of women learn to cum by incorporating a fair amount of leg, abdominal and buttocks tension.Unsurprisingly, most women report that the most cum-inducing muscle contraction or tension is in their lower pelvis. The same muscles you squeeze to stop the flow of urine midstream.
Now, what is the connection between tensing the muscle groups and cumming? Tensing these certain muscles increases blood flow throughout the body and often to the genital area. And arousal of course is the road map that helps women to cum. - RELAX [ WIND DOWN]
So now where’s the relaxation apt of the equation? It is in the brain.
During lovemaking, as a woman, all you should focus on is feeling the sensations of the stimulations unless you made up your mind not to reach that level of the game.Still can’t relax? Think of your favourite love movie in which those favourite onscreen couples make you want to love just as they do.During lovemaking, it is helpful for women to set up their own repetitive mantra that says; ‘ I can do it as long as l want’ or ‘this feels so good” on their mental silent radio. It keeps the mind occupied but with thoughts that will trigger lovemaking than nervous and negative thought. Hence most of them end up relying on blue films before the act.
STILL CAN’T CUM? THE PROBLEM COULD BE MEDICAL
Therapy can improve some women’s love drive to cumming during lovemaking. For others, it can be a medical condition or side effects from a medication that may be causing the problem. Visit your doctor to rule out any of these cause before trying over the counter creams that may increase sensitivity and help a woman reach orgasm, although these are not FDA-approved. As always make sure you talk to your doctor before starting any treatment on this because a slight error can leave you a ‘dead-wood for the rest of your life.
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