Marrying a lady richer than you makes sense until you gradually become the ‘woman’ of the house whiles she is out to find food for the family.
It doesn’t make sense from my part of the world, but as an elite, l see nothing wrong with it as long as it goes with the proportionate respect that must come with it.
It is considered appropriate for women to marry a man who is richer than them, most women prefer it that way and that is becoming a yardstick to accepting proposals nowadays. Your pocket defines who you marry or who you date.
Paying bills, being able to provide for the household is a mandate of a man at the part of the world l wrote this article from. However, gradually, ‘what men can do, women can do better’ is deepening its root and taking its course hence some women don’t feel like being under the tutelage of their partners just for the fact that he commands the family.
Women are opting to be men now. So the question of whether you will be able to cope with a richer woman in marriage comes to mind.
I chanced on a few confessions ( or let me call it experiences ) yesterday about how some few guys were at the receiving end of all the bad that came from the ‘sugar mommy’ after vows of no vices for the exchange of good se..x. You can check that here.
Judging from the prescribed article above l can tell that men, naturally, don’t like being subordinates ( allow me to use that word ) especially when comes to marriage where the female has to play the male role. Any manly conscienced man will hesitate or never ask for money from a woman for anything talkless of in a married home. Imagine making a list of foodstuffs for the woman to buy when it is supposed to be the other way round. Unlike how it is natural for women to walk up to men and ask for anything.
Well, if you find yourself in that situation, don’t feel bad as long as you are doing little effort in taking over tasks meant for you as a man unless you made up your mind to live forever as a dependent husband. Better still, if your wife gave you the wife duties and embraced the husband duties with no remorse.
What triggered this write-up was a discussion l eavesdrops on where a man is finding it hard to respect his wife who is temporarily the ‘man’ of the house because he lost his job and seems unable to adjust to doing some household chores.
He gradually went broke and the women took a second job to keep the house running and he ( man ) still expects the woman ( temporal man ) to prepare his breakfast, and still come back as early as possible to prepare his dinner while he sits home idle all day.
That doesn’t make sense right? It requires understanding and meekness to make a marriage in that situation sail safely without sinking.
Don’t feel bad just because your significant other is doing better than you financially, if that becomes a problem for you, l am tempted to say, you were not ready for marriage in the first place. Especially when the woman is not complaining.
Choosing a marriage partner is such a tiresome task. People have different tests and preferences. Meanwhile, some men are scared of marrying more influential women. That is a fact, but if there is love, respect, and understanding, that marriage can strive under any circumstance.
https://globecalls.com/9-guys-share-worst-sugar-mommy-experience/
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